I’m not a rose-colored glasses kind of person. In fact, my experience is that I’m a little nervous about hanging out with the rose-colored glasses variety because there is a downside, which is: It denies what is and expects others to also. If there is a problem and you happen to speak about it, you just might find yourself referred to as ‘negative’ and/or excluded because it doesn’t fit the reality of rose-colored glasses, and this reality constantly needs adjustment in ways you may not ever be able to comprehend, as it is not actually going on in reality. Yeah.
So, what am I? A person trying to see life’s situations for what they are, as they are. A clear view, in my opinion, eliminates much unnecessary drama, for you and others. The happiest I ever felt was the moment I gave up the ‘eternal smiling optimist’ gig and opted for see it for what it is and evaluate. I did not lose all emotional feeling or concern. In fact, my concern became deeper, wider, rooted in reality and I felt I was able to see more possibilities for remedy when I took a breath and observed. I gained a measure of deeper thoughtfulness, more moments of true laughter and kindness, not from other people’s words or behavior but from my own center, who I want to be based on my core values not on reactivity. The journey continues. Thank you, Lilie